How movies teach manhood - Colin Stokes
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you know my favorite part of being a dad
you know my favorite part of being a dad
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is the movies I get to
is the movies I get to
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watch I love sharing my favorite movies
watch I love sharing my favorite movies
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with my kids and when my daughter was
with my kids and when my daughter was
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four we got to watch The Wizard of Oz
four we got to watch The Wizard of Oz
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together totally dominated Her
together totally dominated Her
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Imagination for months her favorite
Imagination for months her favorite
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character was Glinda of course gave a
character was Glinda of course gave a
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great excuse to wear a sparkly dress and
great excuse to wear a sparkly dress and
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carry a wand but you know you watch a
carry a wand but you know you watch a
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movie enough times and you start to
movie enough times and you start to
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realize how unusual it is now we live
realize how unusual it is now we live
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today and are raising our children in a
today and are raising our children in a
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kind of Children's Fantasy spectacular
kind of Children's Fantasy spectacular
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complex but the Wizard of Oz stood alone
complex but the Wizard of Oz stood alone
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it did not start that Trend 40 years
it did not start that Trend 40 years
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later was when the trend really caught
later was when the trend really caught
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on with interestingly another movie that
on with interestingly another movie that
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featured a metal guy and a furry guy
featured a metal guy and a furry guy
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rescuing a Girl by dressing up as the
rescuing a Girl by dressing up as the
enemy's
enemy's
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guards do you know what I'm talking
guards do you know what I'm talking
about
about
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yeah now there's a big difference
yeah now there's a big difference
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between these two movies a couple of
between these two movies a couple of
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really big differences between the
really big differences between the
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Wizard of Oz and all the movies we watch
Wizard of Oz and all the movies we watch
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today one is there's very little
today one is there's very little
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violence in The Wizard of Oz the uh
violence in The Wizard of Oz the uh
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monkeys are rather aggressive as are the
monkeys are rather aggressive as are the
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apple trees but but um I think if the
apple trees but but um I think if the
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Wizard of Oz were made
Wizard of Oz were made
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today the wizard would say Dorothy you
today the wizard would say Dorothy you
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are the savior of Oz that the prophecy
are the savior of Oz that the prophecy
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foretold use your magic slippers to
foretold use your magic slippers to
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defeat the computer generated armies of
defeat the computer generated armies of
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the wicked witch um that's not how it
the wicked witch um that's not how it
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happens another thing that's really
happens another thing that's really
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unique about The Wizard of Oz to me is
unique about The Wizard of Oz to me is
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that all of the most heroic and wise and
that all of the most heroic and wise and
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even villainous characters are
even villainous characters are
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female now uh I started to notice this
female now uh I started to notice this
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when I actually showed Star Wars to my
when I actually showed Star Wars to my
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daughter uh which was years later and
daughter uh which was years later and
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and the situation was different at that
and the situation was different at that
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point I also had a
point I also had a
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son uh he was only three at the time he
son uh he was only three at the time he
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was not invited to this screening he is
was not invited to this screening he is
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too young for that uh but he was a
too young for that uh but he was a
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second child and the level of
second child and the level of
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supervision had
supervision had
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plummeted so uh he wandered
plummeted so uh he wandered
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in and it imprinted on him like uh mommy
in and it imprinted on him like uh mommy
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duck does to its
duck does to its
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duckling and uh I don't think he
duckling and uh I don't think he
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understand what's what's going on but uh
understand what's what's going on but uh
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he is sure soaking in it and I wonder
he is sure soaking in it and I wonder
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what he's soaking in is he picking up on
what he's soaking in is he picking up on
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the themes of courage and perseverance
the themes of courage and perseverance
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and loyalty is he picking up on the fact
and loyalty is he picking up on the fact
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that Luke joins an army to overthrow the
that Luke joins an army to overthrow the
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government is he picking up on the fact
government is he picking up on the fact
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that there are only boys in the Universe
that there are only boys in the Universe
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except for aunt baru and of course this
except for aunt baru and of course this
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princess who's really cool but who kind
princess who's really cool but who kind
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of waits around through most of the
of waits around through most of the
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movie so that she can award the hero
movie so that she can award the hero
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with a medal and a wink to thank him for
with a medal and a wink to thank him for
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saving the universe which he does uh by
saving the universe which he does uh by
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the magic that he was born with compare
the magic that he was born with compare
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this to 1939 with the Wizard of Oz how
this to 1939 with the Wizard of Oz how
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does Dorothy win her
does Dorothy win her
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movie by making friends with everybody
movie by making friends with everybody
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and being a leader like that's kind of
and being a leader like that's kind of
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the world I'd rather raise my kids in Oz
the world I'd rather raise my kids in Oz
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right and not the world of dudes
right and not the world of dudes
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fighting which is where we kind of have
fighting which is where we kind of have
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to be why is there so much force capital
to be why is there so much force capital
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F force in the movies we have for our
F force in the movies we have for our
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kids and so little yellow brick road I
kids and so little yellow brick road I
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mean there is a lot of great writing
mean there is a lot of great writing
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about the impact that the boy violent
about the impact that the boy violent
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movie has on girls and you should do
movie has on girls and you should do
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that reading it's very good I haven't
that reading it's very good I haven't
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read as much on how boys are picking up
read as much on how boys are picking up
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on this vibe I know from my own
on this vibe I know from my own
experience
experience
experience
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that Princess Leia did not provide the
that Princess Leia did not provide the
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adequate context that I could have used
adequate context that I could have used
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in navigating the adult world uh that is
in navigating the adult world uh that is
co-ed
co-ed
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um I think uh you know there was a kind
um I think uh you know there was a kind
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of first kiss moment when I really
of first kiss moment when I really
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expected the credits to start rolling
expected the credits to start rolling
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because that's the end of the movie
because that's the end of the movie
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right I finished my quest I got the girl
right I finished my quest I got the girl
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why are you still standing there
why are you still standing there
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uh I don't know what I'm supposed to do
uh I don't know what I'm supposed to do
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the movies are very very focused on
the movies are very very focused on
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defeating the villain and getting your
defeating the villain and getting your
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reward and there's not a lot of room for
reward and there's not a lot of room for
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other relationships and other Journeys
other relationships and other Journeys
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it's almost as though if you're a boy
it's almost as though if you're a boy
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you are a Dopey animal and if you were a
you are a Dopey animal and if you were a
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girl you should bring your warrior
girl you should bring your warrior
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costume I mean there are plenty of
costume I mean there are plenty of
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exceptions and I I will defend the
exceptions and I I will defend the
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Disney princesses in front of any of you
Disney princesses in front of any of you
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um but they do uh send a message to boys
um but they do uh send a message to boys
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that they're not the boys are not really
that they're not the boys are not really
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the target audience I mean they are
the target audience I mean they are
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doing a phenomenal job of teaching girls
doing a phenomenal job of teaching girls
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how to defend against the patriarchy but
how to defend against the patriarchy but
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they are not necessarily showing boys
they are not necessarily showing boys
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how they're supposed to defend against
how they're supposed to defend against
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the patriarchy there's no models for
the patriarchy there's no models for
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them and we also have some terrific
them and we also have some terrific
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women who are writing new stories for
women who are writing new stories for
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our kids and as three-dimensional and
our kids and as three-dimensional and
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delightful as Hermione and Katniss are
delightful as Hermione and Katniss are
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these are still war
these are still war
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movies and of course the most successful
movies and of course the most successful
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Studio of all
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time uh continues to crank out classic
time uh continues to crank out classic
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after Classic every single one of them
after Classic every single one of them
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about the Journey of a boy or a man or
about the Journey of a boy or a man or
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two men who are friends or a man and his
two men who are friends or a man and his
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son or uh two men who are raising a
son or uh two men who are raising a
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little girl um until as many of you are
little girl um until as many of you are
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thinking this year when they finally
thinking this year when they finally
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came out with brave I recommend it to
came out with brave I recommend it to
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all of you it's on demand
all of you it's on demand
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now um do you remember what the critic
now um do you remember what the critic
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said when Brave came out oh I can't
said when Brave came out oh I can't
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believe Pixar made a princess
believe Pixar made a princess
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movie It's very good don't let that stop
movie It's very good don't let that stop
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you now almost none of these movies pass
you now almost none of these movies pass
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the beal test I don't know if you've
the beal test I don't know if you've
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heard of this has not yet caught on and
heard of this has not yet caught on and
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caught fire but maybe today we will
caught fire but maybe today we will
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start a movement Allison Beckle is a
start a movement Allison Beckle is a
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comic book artist and back in the mid
comic book artist and back in the mid
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80s she uh recorded this um conversation
80s she uh recorded this um conversation
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she'd had with a friend uh about
she'd had with a friend uh about
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assessing the movies that they saw and
assessing the movies that they saw and
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it's very simple there's just three
it's very simple there's just three
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questions you should ask uh is there
questions you should ask uh is there
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more than one character in the movie
more than one character in the movie
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that is female who has
that is female who has
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lines she try to meet that
lines she try to meet that
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bar and uh do these women talk to each
bar and uh do these women talk to each
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other at any point in the
other at any point in the
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movie and is their conversation about
movie and is their conversation about
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something other than the guy that they
something other than the guy that they
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like right thank
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you thank you very
you thank you very
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much two women who exist and talk to
much two women who exist and talk to
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each other about
each other about
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stuff it it does happen I've seen it and
stuff it it does happen I've seen it and
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yet I very rarely see it in the movies
yet I very rarely see it in the movies
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that we know and love in fact this week
that we know and love in fact this week
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I went to see uh a very high quality
I went to see uh a very high quality
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movie Argo right Oscar buzz doing great
movie Argo right Oscar buzz doing great
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at the box office a consensus idea of
at the box office a consensus idea of
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what a quality Hollywood film is pretty
what a quality Hollywood film is pretty
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much flunks the beal test and I don't
much flunks the beal test and I don't
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think it should because there a lot of
think it should because there a lot of
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the movie I don't know if you've seen it
the movie I don't know if you've seen it
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but a lot of the movie uh takes place in
but a lot of the movie uh takes place in
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this Embassy where men and women are
this Embassy where men and women are
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hiding out during the hostage crisis we
hiding out during the hostage crisis we
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got quite a few scenes of the men having
got quite a few scenes of the men having
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deep angst-ridden conversations in this
deep angst-ridden conversations in this
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Hideout and the the great moment for one
Hideout and the the great moment for one
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of the actresses is to peek through the
of the actresses is to peek through the
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door and say are you coming to bed honey
door and say are you coming to bed honey
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like that's Hollywood for you so let's
like that's Hollywood for you so let's
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let's look at the numbers 2011 of the
let's look at the numbers 2011 of the
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100 most popular movies how many of them
100 most popular movies how many of them
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do you think actually have female
do you think actually have female
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protagonists 11 it's not bad it's not as
protagonists 11 it's not bad it's not as
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it's not as many percent as the number
it's not as many percent as the number
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of women we've just elected to congress
of women we've just elected to congress
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so that's good um but there is a number
so that's good um but there is a number
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that is greater than this that's going
that is greater than this that's going
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to bring this room down in uh last year
to bring this room down in uh last year
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in the New York Times published a study
in the New York Times published a study
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that the government had done here's what
that the government had done here's what
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it said one out of five women in
it said one out of five women in
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America say that they have been sexually
America say that they have been sexually
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assaulted some time in their
assaulted some time in their
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life now I don't think that's the fault
life now I don't think that's the fault
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of popular
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entertainment I don't think kids movies
entertainment I don't think kids movies
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have anything to do with that I don't
have anything to do with that I don't
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even think that you know music videos or
even think that you know music videos or
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pornography are really Direct irly
pornography are really Direct irly
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related to that but something is going
related to that but something is going
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wrong and when I hear that statistic one
wrong and when I hear that statistic one
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of the things I think of is that's a lot
of the things I think of is that's a lot
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of sexual as
of sexual as
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salant who are these guys what are they
salant who are these guys what are they
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learning what are they failing to learn
learning what are they failing to learn
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are they absorbing the story that a male
are they absorbing the story that a male
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Hero's job is to defeat the villain with
Hero's job is to defeat the villain with
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violence and then collect the reward
violence and then collect the reward
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which is a woman who has no friends and
which is a woman who has no friends and
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story you
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know as a parent with the privilege of
know as a parent with the privilege of
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raising a
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daughter like all of you who are doing
daughter like all of you who are doing
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the same thing we find this world and
the same thing we find this world and
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this statistic very alarming and we want
this statistic very alarming and we want
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to prepare them we have tools at our
to prepare them we have tools at our
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disposal like girl
disposal like girl
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power and we hope that that will help
power and we hope that that will help
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but I got to wonder is girl power going
but I got to wonder is girl power going
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to protect them if at the same time
to protect them if at the same time
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actively or passively we are training
actively or passively we are training
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our sons to maintain their boy
our sons to maintain their boy
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Power I mean I think the Netflix cue is
Power I mean I think the Netflix cue is
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one way that we can do something very
one way that we can do something very
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important and I'm talking mainly to the
important and I'm talking mainly to the
dads
dads
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here I think we have got to show our
here I think we have got to show our
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sons a new definition of manhood now the
sons a new definition of manhood now the
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definition of manhood is already uh
definition of manhood is already uh
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turning upside down I mean you've read
turning upside down I mean you've read
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about how the new economy is changing
about how the new economy is changing
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the roles of caregiver and wage earner
the roles of caregiver and wage earner
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they're throwing it up in the air so our
they're throwing it up in the air so our
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sons are going to have to find some way
sons are going to have to find some way
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of adapting to this some new
of adapting to this some new
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relationship with each other and I think
relationship with each other and I think
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we really have to show them and model
we really have to show them and model
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for them how a real man is someone who
for them how a real man is someone who
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trusts his sisters and respects them and
trusts his sisters and respects them and
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wants to be on their team and stands up
wants to be on their team and stands up
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against the real
against the real
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bad guys who are the men who want to
bad guys who are the men who want to
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abuse the
abuse the
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women and I think our job in the Netflix
women and I think our job in the Netflix
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cue is to look out for those movies that
cue is to look out for those movies that
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pass the beal test if we can find them
pass the beal test if we can find them
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and to seek out the heroins who are
and to seek out the heroins who are
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there who show real courage who bring
there who show real courage who bring
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people together and to nudge our sons to
people together and to nudge our sons to
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identify with those
identify with those
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heroins and to say I want to be on their
heroins and to say I want to be on their
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team because they're going to be on
team because they're going to be on
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team when I asked my daughter who her
team when I asked my daughter who her
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favorite character was in Star Wars do
favorite character was in Star Wars do
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you know what she
you know what she
said
said
said
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Obi-Wan Obi-Wan Kenobi and
Obi-Wan Obi-Wan Kenobi and
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Glenda now what do these two have in
Glenda now what do these two have in
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common maybe it's not just the sparkly
common maybe it's not just the sparkly
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dress I think these people are experts I
dress I think these people are experts I
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think these are the two people in the
think these are the two people in the
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movie who know more than anybody else
movie who know more than anybody else
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and they love sharing their knowledge
and they love sharing their knowledge
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with other people to help them Reach
with other people to help them Reach
their
their
their
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potential now they're leaders I like
potential now they're leaders I like
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that kind of quest for my daughter and I
that kind of quest for my daughter and I
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like that kind of quest for my son I
like that kind of quest for my son I
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want more quests like that I want fewer
want more quests like that I want fewer
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quests where my son is told go out and
quests where my son is told go out and
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fight it alone and more quests where he
fight it alone and more quests where he
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sees that it's his job to join a
sees that it's his job to join a
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team maybe a team led by
team maybe a team led by
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women to help other people
women to help other people
become
become
become
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better and be better people like The
better and be better people like The
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Wizard of
Wizard of
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Oz thank
Oz thank
[Applause]
you
Colin Stokes, TED, TEDx, TEDxBeaconStreet, movies, film, feminism, film, feminism, TED-Ed, TED, Ed, TEDEducation, manhood, men, masculinity
