Bí quyết hạnh phúc để làm việc tốt hơn – Shawn Achor

The happy secret to better work - Shawn Achor
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The happy secret to better work - Shawn Achor

 


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when I was 7 years old and my sister was when I was 7 years old and my sister was just<00:00:18.119> 5<00:00:18.359> years<00:00:18.560> old<00:00:19.119> we<00:00:19.240> were<00:00:19.439> playing<00:00:20.160> on<00:00:20.359> top just 5 years old we were playing on top just 5 years old we were playing on top of<00:00:20.640> a<00:00:20.720> bunk<00:00:21.000> bed<00:00:21.760> I<00:00:21.840> was<00:00:22.000> 2<00:00:22.199> years<00:00:22.400> older<00:00:22.720> than of a bunk bed I was 2 years older than of a bunk bed I was 2 years older than my<00:00:23.000> sister<00:00:23.320> at<00:00:23.439> the<00:00:23.599> time<00:00:24.400> I<00:00:24.480> mean<00:00:24.640> I'm<00:00:24.720> 2<00:00:24.880> years my sister at the time I mean I'm 2 years my sister at the time I mean I'm 2 years older<00:00:25.320> than<00:00:25.439> her<00:00:25.640> now<00:00:25.960> but<00:00:26.279> at<00:00:26.519> the<00:00:27.519> at<00:00:27.640> the older than her now but at the at the older 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before heroically pushing her out of the before heroically pushing her out of the way<00:01:28.400> of<00:01:28.520> an<00:01:28.640> oncoming<00:01:29.600> imag<00:01:29.920> inary<00:01:30.360> sniper way of an oncoming imag inary sniper way of an oncoming imag inary sniper bullet<00:01:33.560> for<00:01:33.759> which<00:01:33.880> I<00:01:34.000> have<00:01:34.159> yet<00:01:34.280> to<00:01:34.399> be bullet for which I have yet to be bullet for which I have yet to be thanked<00:01:34.840> I<00:01:34.920> was<00:01:35.040> trying<00:01:35.320> as<00:01:35.439> hard<00:01:35.640> as<00:01:35.799> I thanked I was trying as hard as I thanked I was trying as hard as I could<00:01:37.960> she<00:01:38.079> didn't<00:01:38.280> even<00:01:38.439> see<00:01:38.600> it<00:01:38.759> coming<00:01:39.040> I could she didn't even see it coming I could she didn't even see it coming I was<00:01:39.280> trying<00:01:39.560> as<00:01:39.680> hard<00:01:39.840> as<00:01:39.960> I<00:01:40.040> could<00:01:40.200> to<00:01:40.280> be<00:01:40.399> on was trying as hard as I could to be on was trying as hard as I could to be on my<00:01:40.680> best<00:01:40.880> behavior<00:01:41.240> and<00:01:41.360> I<00:01:41.439> saw<00:01:41.600> in<00:01:41.680> my my best behavior and I saw in my my best behavior and I saw in my sister's<00:01:42.119> face<00:01:42.320> this<00:01:42.520> whale<00:01:43.079> of<00:01:43.280> pain<00:01:43.520> and sister's face this whale of pain and sister's face this whale of pain and suffering<00:01:44.040> and<00:01:44.200> surprise<00:01:44.799> threatening<00:01:45.200> to suffering and surprise threatening to suffering and surprise threatening to erupt<00:01:45.680> from<00:01:45.799> her<00:01:45.960> mouth<00:01:46.159> and<00:01:46.280> threatening<00:01:46.640> to erupt from her mouth and threatening to erupt from her mouth and threatening to wake<00:01:47.000> my<00:01:47.119> parents<00:01:47.439> from<00:01:47.600> The<00:01:47.680> Long<00:01:47.880> Winter wake my parents from The Long Winter wake my parents from The Long Winter snap<00:01:48.479> for<00:01:48.640> which<00:01:48.799> they<00:01:48.880> had<00:01:49.000> settled<00:01:49.640> so<00:01:49.799> I<00:01:49.920> did snap for which they had settled so I did snap for which they had settled so I did the<00:01:50.200> only<00:01:50.520> thing<00:01:51.000> my<00:01:51.159> little<00:01:51.399> frantic the only thing my little frantic the only thing my little frantic seven-year-old<00:01:52.520> brain<00:01:52.840> could<00:01:53.000> think<00:01:53.200> to<00:01:53.360> do seven-year-old brain could think to do seven-year-old brain could think to do to<00:01:53.719> avert<00:01:54.079> this<00:01:54.240> tragedy<00:01:54.719> if<00:01:54.840> you<00:01:54.960> have to avert this tragedy if you have to avert this tragedy if you have children<00:01:55.399> you've<00:01:55.560> seen<00:01:55.759> this<00:01:56.079> hundreds<00:01:56.399> of children you've seen this hundreds of children you've seen this hundreds of times<00:01:56.799> before<00:01:57.000> I<00:01:57.079> said<00:01:57.240> Amy<00:01:57.479> Amy<00:01:57.719> wait<00:01:57.920> don't times before I said Amy Amy wait don't times before I said Amy Amy wait don't cry<00:01:58.320> don't<00:01:58.479> cry<00:01:58.920> did<00:01:59.039> you<00:01:59.159> see<00:01:59.320> how<00:01:59.439> you<00:01:59.560> land cry don't cry did you see how you land cry don't cry did you see how you land no<00:02:00.719> human<00:02:01.079> lands<00:02:01.479> on<00:02:01.640> all<00:02:01.799> fours<00:02:02.240> like no human lands on all fours like no human lands on all fours like that<00:02:04.000> Amy<00:02:04.640> I<00:02:04.759> think<00:02:05.000> this<00:02:05.119> means<00:02:05.320> you're<00:02:05.479> a



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unicorn now that was cheating because unicorn now that was cheating because there's<00:02:11.080> nothing<00:02:11.280> in<00:02:11.360> the<00:02:11.480> world<00:02:11.800> my<00:02:11.920> sister there's nothing in the world my sister there's nothing in the world my sister would<00:02:12.360> want<00:02:12.560> more<00:02:12.760> than<00:02:12.920> not<00:02:13.040> to<00:02:13.160> be<00:02:13.319> Amy<00:02:13.599> the would want more than not to be Amy the would want more than not to be Amy the hurt<00:02:13.959> 5-year-old<00:02:14.440> little<00:02:14.640> sister<00:02:14.879> but<00:02:15.000> Amy hurt 5-year-old little sister but Amy hurt 5-year-old little sister but Amy the<00:02:15.360> special<00:02:15.640> unicorn<00:02:16.280> of<00:02:16.440> course<00:02:16.800> this<00:02:16.920> was the special unicorn of course this was the special unicorn of course this was an<00:02:17.239> option<00:02:17.480> that<00:02:17.599> was<00:02:17.720> open<00:02:17.920> to<00:02:18.040> her<00:02:18.120> brain<00:02:18.319> at an option that was open to her brain at an option that was open to her brain at no<00:02:18.640> point<00:02:18.800> in<00:02:18.879> the<00:02:19.040> past<00:02:19.440> and<00:02:19.519> you<00:02:19.640> could<00:02:19.760> see no point in the past and you could see no point in the past and you could see on<00:02:20.160> my<00:02:20.360> poor<00:02:20.800> manipulated<00:02:21.440> sisters<00:02:21.760> face on my poor manipulated sisters face on my poor manipulated sisters face conflict<00:02:23.080> as<00:02:23.200> her<00:02:23.400> little<00:02:23.599> brain<00:02:23.959> attempted conflict as her little brain attempted conflict as her little brain attempted to<00:02:24.480> devote<00:02:24.840> resources<00:02:25.360> to<00:02:25.480> feeling<00:02:25.800> the<00:02:25.920> pain to devote resources to feeling the pain to devote resources to feeling the pain and<00:02:26.319> suffering<00:02:26.720> surprise<00:02:27.360> she<00:02:27.599> just and suffering surprise she just and suffering surprise she just experienced<00:02:28.680> or<00:02:29.000> contemplating<00:02:29.519> her<00:02:29.640> new experienced or contemplating her new experienced or contemplating her new found<00:02:30.160> identity<00:02:30.519> as<00:02:30.640> a found identity as a found identity as a unicorn<00:02:32.239> and<00:02:32.360> the<00:02:32.480> latter<00:02:32.720> won<00:02:32.959> out<00:02:33.120> instead unicorn and the latter won out instead unicorn and the latter won out instead of<00:02:33.440> crying<00:02:33.720> instead<00:02:33.920> of<00:02:34.000> ceasing<00:02:34.319> our<00:02:34.440> play of crying instead of ceasing our play of crying instead of ceasing our play instead<00:02:34.879> of<00:02:35.000> waking<00:02:35.319> my<00:02:35.440> parents<00:02:35.720> with<00:02:35.879> all instead of waking my parents with all instead of waking my parents with all the<00:02:36.120> negative<00:02:36.519> consequences<00:02:37.160> that<00:02:37.280> would the negative consequences that would the negative consequences that would have<00:02:37.560> ensued<00:02:37.879> for<00:02:38.080> me<00:02:38.680> instead<00:02:39.000> a<00:02:39.120> smile have ensued for me instead a smile have ensued for me instead a smile spread<00:02:39.680> across<00:02:39.920> her<00:02:40.080> face<00:02:40.239> and<00:02:40.319> she<00:02:40.440> scrambled spread across her face and she scrambled spread across her face and she scrambled right<00:02:41.080> back<00:02:41.200> up<00:02:41.319> onto<00:02:41.560> the<00:02:41.640> bunk<00:02:41.840> bed<00:02:42.040> with<00:02:42.159> all right back up onto the bunk bed with all right back up onto the bunk bed with all the<00:02:42.480> grace<00:02:42.920> of<00:02:43.040> a<00:02:43.159> baby



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