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Praising slowness - Carl Honore
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Praising slowness - Carl Honore

 


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what I'd like to start off with is an what I'd like to start off with is an observation<00:00:18.110> which<00:00:18.259> is<00:00:18.439> that<00:00:18.650> if<00:00:18.980> I've observation which is that if I've observation which is that if I've learned<00:00:19.490> anything<00:00:19.700> over<00:00:20.150> the<00:00:20.240> last<00:00:20.390> year<00:00:20.810> it's learned anything over the last year it's learned anything over the last year it's that<00:00:21.289> the<00:00:21.439> the<00:00:21.919> supreme<00:00:22.279> irony<00:00:22.520> of<00:00:22.759> publishing that the the supreme irony of publishing that the the supreme irony of publishing a<00:00:23.329> book<00:00:23.450> about<00:00:23.570> slowness<00:00:24.140> is<00:00:24.289> that<00:00:24.380> you<00:00:24.439> have a book about slowness is that you have a book about slowness is that you have to<00:00:24.680> go<00:00:24.770> around<00:00:24.860> promoting<00:00:25.400> it<00:00:25.490> really<00:00:25.789> fast<00:00:26.060> I to go around promoting it really fast I to go around promoting it really fast I seem<00:00:27.680> to<00:00:27.710> spend<00:00:27.829> most<00:00:28.040> of<00:00:28.250> my<00:00:28.309> time<00:00:28.369> these<00:00:28.790> days seem to spend most of my time these days seem to spend most of my time these days you<00:00:29.660> know<00:00:29.750> zipping<00:00:30.140> from<00:00:30.439> city<00:00:30.770> to<00:00:30.829> city you know zipping from city to city you know zipping from city to city Studio<00:00:31.610> to<00:00:31.700> studio<00:00:32.140> interview<00:00:33.140> to<00:00:33.200> interview Studio to studio interview to interview Studio to studio interview to interview serving<00:00:34.460> up<00:00:34.550> the<00:00:34.700> book<00:00:34.850> and<00:00:35.030> Rudy<00:00:35.270> tiny serving up the book and Rudy tiny serving up the book and Rudy tiny bite-size<00:00:35.780> chunks<00:00:36.020> because<00:00:36.950> everyone<00:00:37.910> these bite-size chunks because everyone these bite-size chunks because everyone these days<00:00:38.270> wants<00:00:39.170> to<00:00:39.260> know<00:00:39.379> how<00:00:39.559> to<00:00:39.620> slow<00:00:39.890> down<00:00:40.100> but days wants to know how to slow down but days wants to know how to slow down but but<00:00:40.670> they<00:00:40.789> want<00:00:40.969> to<00:00:41.030> know<00:00:41.120> how<00:00:41.270> to<00:00:41.329> slow<00:00:41.570> down but they want to know how to slow down but they want to know how to slow down really<00:00:41.989> quickly<00:00:42.289> so<00:00:43.070> so<00:00:43.730> I<00:00:43.760> did<00:00:43.970> a<00:00:44.000> spot<00:00:44.270> on<00:00:44.300> CNN really quickly so so I did a spot on CNN really quickly so so I did a spot on CNN the<00:00:44.960> other<00:00:45.110> day<00:00:45.320> where<00:00:45.650> I<00:00:45.680> actually<00:00:45.890> spent the other day where I actually spent the other day where I actually spent 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against the clock to borrow a phrase against the clock to borrow a phrase from<00:01:07.850> Carrie<00:01:08.119> Fisher<00:01:08.450> which<00:01:08.600> is<00:01:08.750> in<00:01:09.290> my<00:01:09.409> bio from Carrie Fisher which is in my bio from Carrie Fisher which is in my bio there<00:01:10.009> I'll<00:01:10.159> just<00:01:10.219> toss<00:01:10.520> it<00:01:10.670> out<00:01:10.759> again<00:01:10.969> these there I'll just toss it out again these there I'll just toss it out again these days<00:01:11.570> even<00:01:12.020> instant<00:01:12.439> gratification<00:01:12.850> takes days even instant gratification takes days even instant gratification takes too<00:01:14.060> long<00:01:14.090> and<00:01:15.190> if<00:01:16.190> you<00:01:16.280> think<00:01:16.549> about<00:01:16.610> how<00:01:16.790> we too long and if you think about how we too long and if you think about how we try<00:01:17.090> to<00:01:17.150> make<00:01:17.360> things<00:01:17.510> better<00:01:17.630> 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to walk now we speed walk and of we used to walk now we speed walk and of course<00:01:24.979> we<00:01:25.070> used<00:01:25.190> to<00:01:25.250> date<00:01:25.460> and<00:01:25.970> now<00:01:26.180> we<00:01:26.240> speed course we used to date and now we speed course we used to date and now we speed date<00:01:26.780> and<00:01:27.200> even<00:01:28.040> things<00:01:28.549> that<00:01:28.610> are<00:01:28.760> by<00:01:28.850> their date and even things that are by their date and even things that are by their very<00:01:29.090> nature<00:01:29.210> slow<00:01:29.950> we<00:01:30.950> try<00:01:31.130> and<00:01:31.250> speed<00:01:31.460> them very nature slow we try and speed them very nature slow we try and speed them up<00:01:31.640> too<00:01:31.909> so<00:01:32.420> I<00:01:32.659> was<00:01:33.200> in<00:01:33.320> New<00:01:33.409> York<00:01:33.440> recently<00:01:33.680> and up too so I was in New York recently and up too so I was in New York recently and I<00:01:34.190> 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in living does to us we're so marinated in the<00:02:05.840> culture<00:02:06.200> of<00:02:06.229> speed<00:02:06.650> that<00:02:07.430> we<00:02:07.549> we<00:02:08.060> almost the culture of speed that we we almost the culture of speed that we we almost fail<00:02:08.450> to<00:02:08.599> notice<00:02:08.780> the<00:02:08.989> toll<00:02:09.200> it<00:02:09.409> takes<00:02:09.530> on fail to notice the toll it takes on fail to notice the toll it takes on every<00:02:09.890> aspect<00:02:10.129> of<00:02:10.489> our<00:02:10.579> lives<00:02:10.849> on<00:02:11.060> our<00:02:11.120> health every aspect of our lives on our health every aspect of our lives on our health our<00:02:11.900> diet<00:02:12.349> our<00:02:12.650> work<00:02:13.010> our<00:02:13.459> relationships<00:02:14.269> in our diet our work our relationships in our diet our work our relationships in the<00:02:15.079> environment<00:02:15.560> and<00:02:15.739> our<00:02:16.400> community<00:02:16.819> and the environment and our community and the environment and our community and sometimes<00:02:17.269> it<00:02:17.569> takes<00:02:17.629> a<00:02:18.019> wake-up<00:02:18.980> call sometimes it takes a wake-up call sometimes it takes a wake-up call doesn't<00:02:19.790> it<00:02:19.880> to<00:02:20.030> to<00:02:20.270> alert<00:02:20.630> us<00:02:20.780> to<00:02:20.810> the<00:02:20.959> fact doesn't it to to alert us to the fact doesn't it to to alert us to the fact that<00:02:21.349> we're<00:02:21.620> hurrying<00:02:21.920> through<00:02:22.280> our<00:02:22.370> lie that we're hurrying through our lie that we're hurrying through our lie instead<00:02:23.659> of<00:02:23.750> actually<00:02:24.019> living<00:02:24.170> them<00:02:24.409> that instead of actually living them that instead of actually living them that we're<00:02:24.709> living<00:02:25.519> the<00:02:25.670> fast<00:02:25.819> life<00:02:26.030> instead<00:02:26.480> of we're living the fast life instead of we're 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Hat speed reading The Cat in the Hat I'd<00:02:56.810> be<00:02:56.989> you<00:02:57.409> know<00:02:57.500> I<00:02:57.530> be<00:02:57.650> skipping<00:02:57.890> lines<00:02:58.159> here I'd be you know I be skipping lines here I'd be you know I be skipping lines here paragraphs<00:02:59.269> there<00:02:59.510> sometimes<00:02:59.870> a<00:02:59.989> whole<00:03:00.079> page paragraphs there sometimes a whole page paragraphs there sometimes a whole page and<00:03:00.379> of<00:03:00.590> course<00:03:00.739> my<00:03:00.829> little<00:03:00.889> boy<00:03:01.129> knew<00:03:01.370> the and of course my little boy knew the and of course my little boy knew the book<00:03:01.849> inside<00:03:02.299> out<00:03:02.450> so<00:03:03.109> we<00:03:03.349> would<00:03:03.470> quarrel<00:03:03.799> and book inside out so we would quarrel and book inside out so we would quarrel and what<00:03:04.040> should<00:03:04.250> have<00:03:04.370> been<00:03:04.400> the<00:03:04.760> 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ready to go on a another book tour and I ready to go on a another book tour and I had<00:18:37.260> my<00:18:37.380> bags<00:18:37.620> packed<00:18:38.010> I<00:18:38.250> was<00:18:38.370> downstairs<00:18:38.580> by had my bags packed I was downstairs by had my bags packed I was downstairs by the<00:18:39.090> front<00:18:39.210> door<00:18:39.660> and<00:18:39.870> I<00:18:40.320> was<00:18:40.440> waiting<00:18:40.530> for<00:18:40.740> a the front door and I was waiting for a the front door and I was waiting for a taxi<00:18:40.830> my<00:18:41.250> son<00:18:41.490> came<00:18:41.700> down<00:18:41.880> the<00:18:42.030> stairs<00:18:42.240> and<00:18:42.360> he taxi my son came down the stairs and he taxi my son came down the stairs and he he<00:18:43.020> made<00:18:43.230> a<00:18:43.260> card<00:18:43.620> for<00:18:43.679> me<00:18:43.950> he<00:18:44.250> was<00:18:44.400> carrying<00:18:44.610> it he made a card for me he was carrying it he made a card for me he was 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to his me and and I read it it said to his me and and I read it it said to Daddy<00:18:57.390> love<00:18:57.660> Benjamin<00:18:57.929> and<00:18:58.679> I<00:18:58.770> thought<00:18:58.950> oh Daddy love Benjamin and I thought oh Daddy love Benjamin and I thought oh that's<00:18:59.309> that's<00:19:00.150> really<00:19:00.419> sweet<00:19:00.660> you<00:19:00.929> know<00:19:01.020> is that's that's really sweet you know is that's that's really sweet you know is that<00:19:01.380> a<00:19:01.700> good<00:19:02.700> luck<00:19:02.850> on<00:19:02.970> the<00:19:03.030> book<00:19:03.179> tour<00:19:03.390> card that a good luck on the book tour card that a good luck on the book tour card and<00:19:04.290> he<00:19:04.559> said<00:19:04.710> no<00:19:04.830> no<00:19:04.950> no<00:19:05.220> daddy<00:19:05.580> this<00:19:05.790> is<00:19:05.940> a and he said no no no daddy this is a and he said no no no daddy this is a card<00:19:06.270> for<00:19:06.450> being<00:19:06.600> 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