A father-daughter dance ... in prison - Angela Patton
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I was sitting with my girls and joy said
I was sitting with my girls and joy said
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hey I wish you'd get off my back
hey I wish you'd get off my back
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my daddy he calls me all the time lucky
my daddy he calls me all the time lucky
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for you he calls it all sad jasmine I
for you he calls it all sad jasmine I
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haven't heard from my dad in years at
haven't heard from my dad in years at
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this moment I knew that girls needed a
this moment I knew that girls needed a
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way to connect with their fathers and
way to connect with their fathers and
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camp Diva my nonprofit organization we
camp Diva my nonprofit organization we
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have these types of conversations all
have these types of conversations all
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the time as a way to help girls of
the time as a way to help girls of
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African descent prepare for their
African descent prepare for their
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passage into womanhood these girls just
passage into womanhood these girls just
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need it a way to invite their fathers
need it a way to invite their fathers
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into their lives on their own terms so I
into their lives on their own terms so I
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asked the girls how can we help other
asked the girls how can we help other
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girls develop healthy relationships with
girls develop healthy relationships with
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their fathers let's have a dance one
their fathers let's have a dance one
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girl shouted and all the girls quickly
girl shouted and all the girls quickly
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backed her up
backed her up
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they started dreaming about the
they started dreaming about the
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decorations invitations the dresses they
decorations invitations the dresses they
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were going to wear and what their
were going to wear and what their
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fathers could and could not wear it was
fathers could and could not wear it was
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off and running before I could even
off and running before I could even
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blink my eyes but even if I could have
blink my eyes but even if I could have
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slowed down those girls I wouldn't have
slowed down those girls I wouldn't have
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because one thing that I have learned
because one thing that I have learned
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from over a decade of working with girls
from over a decade of working with girls
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is that they already know what they need
is that they already know what they need
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the wisdom lives inside of them as long
the wisdom lives inside of them as long
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as they have infrastructure mentorship
as they have infrastructure mentorship
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and resources they could build what they
and resources they could build what they
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need not only to survive but to thrive
need not only to survive but to thrive
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so we had a dance
so we had a dance
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and girls and their fathers came in
and girls and their fathers came in
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multitude they were dressed to the nine
multitude they were dressed to the nine
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they acted sweet they acted silly they
they acted sweet they acted silly they
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really enjoyed each other's company it
really enjoyed each other's company it
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was a huge success and the girls decided
was a huge success and the girls decided
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to make it an annual event so as the
to make it an annual event so as the
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seasons changed and it was time to plan
seasons changed and it was time to plan
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the dance again one girl named Brianna
the dance again one girl named Brianna
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spoke up and she said my dad can come to
spoke up and she said my dad can come to
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the dance and this whole thing is making
the dance and this whole thing is making
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me sad why not the girls acts because
me sad why not the girls acts because
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he's in jail she bravely emitted well
he's in jail she bravely emitted well
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can he just get out for a day one of the
can he just get out for a day one of the
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girls acts
girls acts
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and come in shackles that's worse than
and come in shackles that's worse than
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not having him here at all at this
not having him here at all at this
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moment I saw an opportunity for the
moment I saw an opportunity for the
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girls to rise to the occasion and to
girls to rise to the occasion and to
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become their own heroes so I asked what
become their own heroes so I asked what
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do you think we should do about this we
do you think we should do about this we
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want every girl to experience the dance
want every girl to experience the dance
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right so the girls thought for a moment
right so the girls thought for a moment
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and one girl suggested why don't we just
and one girl suggested why don't we just
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take the dance in the jail most of the
take the dance in the jail most of the
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girls doubted the possibility of that
girls doubted the possibility of that
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and said are you crazy
and said are you crazy
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who is going to allow a bunch of little
who is going to allow a bunch of little
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girls dressed up
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to come inside of jail and dance what
to come inside of jail and dance what
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their daddies in spongebob suits because
their daddies in spongebob suits because
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that's what they called them I said
that's what they called them I said
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girls well well you never know unless
girls well well you never know unless
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you acts so a letter was written to the
you acts so a letter was written to the
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Richmond City Sheriff sign collectively
Richmond City Sheriff sign collectively
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by each girl and I would have to say he
by each girl and I would have to say he
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is a very special Sheriff
is a very special Sheriff
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he contacted me immediately and said
he contacted me immediately and said
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whenever there is an opportunity to
whenever there is an opportunity to
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bring families inside his doors are
bring families inside his doors are
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always open because one thing he did
always open because one thing he did
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know that when fathers are connected to
know that when fathers are connected to
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their children it is less likely that
their children it is less likely that
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they will return
they will return
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so 16 inmates and 18 girls were invited
so 16 inmates and 18 girls were invited
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the girls were dressed in their Sunday
the girls were dressed in their Sunday
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best and the fathers traded in their
best and the fathers traded in their
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yellow and blue jumpsuits for shirt and
yellow and blue jumpsuits for shirt and
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ties they hugged they shared a full
ties they hugged they shared a full
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catered meal of chicken and fish they
catered meal of chicken and fish they
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the fathers and daughters even
the fathers and daughters even
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experienced that opportunity to have a
experienced that opportunity to have a
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physical connection something that a lot
physical connection something that a lot
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of them didn't even have for a while
of them didn't even have for a while
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fathers were in a space where they were
fathers were in a space where they were
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able to make their daughters plate and
able to make their daughters plate and
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pull out her chair and extend his hand
pull out her chair and extend his hand
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for a dance even the guards cried but
for a dance even the guards cried but
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after the dance we all realized that dad
after the dance we all realized that dad
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still will be in jail so we needed to
still will be in jail so we needed to
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create something that they could take
create something that they could take
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with them so we brought in flip cams and
with them so we brought in flip cams and
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we had them look at the flip cams and
we had them look at the flip cams and
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just interview each other's their
just interview each other's their
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messages their thoughts this was going
messages their thoughts this was going
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to be used as a touchstone so when they
to be used as a touchstone so when they
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started to miss each other and feel
started to miss each other and feel
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disconnected they could reconnect
disconnected they could reconnect
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through this image I never forget that
through this image I never forget that
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one girl looked in her father's eyes
one girl looked in her father's eyes
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with that camera and said daddy when you
with that camera and said daddy when you
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look at me what do you see because our
look at me what do you see because our
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daddies are our mirrors that we reflect
daddies are our mirrors that we reflect
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back on when we decide about what type
back on when we decide about what type
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of man we deserve and how they see us
of man we deserve and how they see us
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for the rest of our lives I know that
for the rest of our lives I know that
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very well
very well
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because I was one of the lucky girls I
because I was one of the lucky girls I
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my father in my life always he's even
my father in my life always he's even
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and that is why it is extremely special
and that is why it is extremely special
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for me to make sure that these girls are
for me to make sure that these girls are
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connected to their fathers especially
connected to their fathers especially
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those who are separated because of
those who are separated because of
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barbed wires and metal doors we have
barbed wires and metal doors we have
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just created a forum for girls who have
just created a forum for girls who have
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heavy questions on their heart to be in
heavy questions on their heart to be in
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a position to ask their fathers those
a position to ask their fathers those
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questions and given the fathers the
questions and given the fathers the
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freedom to answer because we know that
freedom to answer because we know that
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the fathers are even leaving with this
the fathers are even leaving with this
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one thought what type of woman and I
one thought what type of woman and I
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preparing to put in the world because a
preparing to put in the world because a
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father is locked in does not mean he
father is locked in does not mean he
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should be locked out of his daughter's
should be locked out of his daughter's
life
you
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