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The art of choosing - Sheena Iyengar
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The art of choosing - Sheena Iyengar

 


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today I'm going to take you around the today I'm going to take you around the world<00:00:25.119> in<00:00:25.279> 18<00:00:26.240> minutes<00:00:27.240> my<00:00:27.439> base<00:00:27.640> of world in 18 minutes my base of world in 18 minutes my base of operations<00:00:28.519> is<00:00:28.679> in<00:00:28.840> the<00:00:29.000> US<00:00:29.640> but<00:00:29.800> let<00:00:30.119> start<00:00:30.320> at operations is in the US but let start at operations is in the US but let start at the<00:00:30.599> other<00:00:30.800> end<00:00:31.000> of<00:00:31.119> the<00:00:31.320> map<00:00:31.800> in<00:00:32.040> Koto<00:00:32.559> Japan the other end of the map in Koto Japan the other end of the map in Koto Japan where<00:00:33.680> I<00:00:33.800> was<00:00:33.960> living<00:00:34.239> with<00:00:34.399> a<00:00:34.600> Japanese where I was living with a Japanese where I was living with a Japanese family<00:00:36.120> while<00:00:36.280> I<00:00:36.360> was<00:00:36.480> 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sugar well since I couldn't have my tea sugar well since I couldn't have my tea the<00:01:43.880> way<00:01:44.040> I<00:01:44.119> wanted<00:01:44.399> it<00:01:44.560> I<00:01:44.640> ordered<00:01:44.920> a<00:01:45.040> cup<00:01:45.240> of the way I wanted it I ordered a cup of the way I wanted it I ordered a cup of coffee<00:01:45.799> which<00:01:46.040> the<00:01:46.119> waiter<00:01:46.520> brought<00:01:46.799> brought coffee which the waiter brought brought coffee which the waiter brought brought over over over promptly<00:01:48.880> resting<00:01:49.280> on<00:01:49.439> the<00:01:49.600> saucer<00:01:50.520> were<00:01:50.759> two promptly resting on the saucer were two promptly resting on the saucer were two packets<00:01:51.360> of packets of packets of sugar<00:01:54.240> my<00:01:54.479> failure<00:01:55.079> to<00:01:55.439> procure<00:01:56.000> myself<00:01:56.439> a<00:01:56.600> cup sugar my failure to procure myself a cup sugar my failure to procure myself a cup of<00:01:56.920> sweet<00:01:57.240> green<00:01:57.560> tea<00:01:58.039> was<00:01:58.280> not<00:01:58.520> due<00:01:58.799> to<00:01:58.960> a of sweet green tea was not due to a of sweet green tea was not due to a simple<00:01:59.399> misunder<00:02:00.159> understanding<00:02:01.039> this<00:02:01.200> was simple misunder understanding this was simple misunder understanding this was due<00:02:01.560> to<00:02:01.799> a<00:02:02.079> fundamental<00:02:02.840> difference<00:02:03.320> in<00:02:03.560> our due to a fundamental difference in our due to a fundamental difference in our ideas<00:02:04.840> about<00:02:05.240> Choice<00:02:06.240> from<00:02:06.439> my<00:02:06.680> American ideas about Choice from my American ideas about Choice from my American perspective<00:02:08.399> when<00:02:08.520> a<00:02:08.679> paying<00:02:09.080> customer<00:02:09.440> makes perspective when a paying customer makes perspective when a paying customer makes a<00:02:09.840> reasonable<00:02:10.399> request<00:02:11.039> based<00:02:11.319> on<00:02:11.480> her a reasonable request based on her a reasonable request based on her preferences<00:02:12.560> she<00:02:12.760> has<00:02:13.040> every<00:02:13.360> right<00:02:13.560> to<00:02:13.760> have preferences she has every right to have preferences she has every right to have that<00:02:14.160> request<00:02:15.160> met<00:02:16.160> the<00:02:16.280> American<00:02:16.720> way<00:02:16.879> to that request met the American way to that request met the American way to quote<00:02:17.280> Burger<00:02:17.680> King<00:02:17.959> is<00:02:18.080> to<00:02:18.239> have<00:02:18.400> it<00:02:18.680> your<00:02:19.080> way quote Burger King is to have it your way quote Burger King is to have it your way because<00:02:19.680> as<00:02:19.920> Starbucks<00:02:20.560> says<00:02:21.160> happiness<00:02:21.680> is because as Starbucks says happiness is because as Starbucks says happiness is in<00:02:22.000> your



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better in this case the ignorant gin for better in this case the ignorant gin for making<00:02:36.640> the<00:02:36.840> wrong making the wrong making the wrong choice<00:02:39.040> let's<00:02:39.280> face<00:02:39.440> it<00:02:39.640> the<00:02:39.720> way<00:02:39.879> I<00:02:40.000> wanted<00:02:40.319> my choice let's face it the way I wanted my choice let's face it the way I wanted my tea<00:02:40.800> was<00:02:41.000> inappropriate<00:02:41.720> according<00:02:42.040> to tea was inappropriate according to tea was inappropriate according to cultural<00:02:42.840> standards<00:02:43.280> and<00:02:43.400> they<00:02:43.519> were<00:02:43.680> doing cultural standards and they were doing cultural standards and they were doing their<00:02:44.159> best<00:02:44.400> to<00:02:44.519> help<00:02:44.680> me<00:02:44.800> say their best to help me say their best to help me say face<00:02:46.680> Americans<00:02:47.280> tend<00:02:47.519> to<00:02:47.760> believe<00:02:48.280> that face Americans tend to believe that face Americans tend to believe that they've<00:02:48.640> reached<00:02:49.000> some<00:02:49.200> sort<00:02:49.360> of<00:02:49.560> Pinnacle<00:02:50.080> in they've reached some sort of Pinnacle in they've reached some sort of Pinnacle in the<00:02:50.400> way<00:02:50.599> they<00:02:50.879> practice<00:02:51.440> choice<00:02:52.440> they<00:02:52.599> think the way they practice choice they think the way they practice choice they think that<00:02:53.080> choice<00:02:53.440> is<00:02:53.599> seen<00:02:53.920> through<00:02:54.159> the<00:02:54.319> American that choice is seen through the American that choice is seen through the American lens<00:02:55.360> best<00:02:55.680> fulfills<00:02:56.400> an<00:02:56.599> innate<00:02:57.080> and lens best fulfills an innate and lens best fulfills an innate and Universal<00:02:57.959> desire<00:02:58.360> for<00:02:58.599> choice<00:02:59.280> in<00:02:59.400> all<00:02:59.599> human Universal desire for choice in all human Universal desire for choice in all human humans<00:03:01.400> unfortunately<00:03:02.400> these<00:03:02.720> beliefs<00:03:03.159> are humans unfortunately these beliefs are humans unfortunately these beliefs are based<00:03:03.840> on<00:03:04.159> assumptions<00:03:04.879> that<00:03:05.000> don't<00:03:05.239> always based on assumptions that don't always based on assumptions that don't always hold<00:03:05.840> true<00:03:06.680> in<00:03:06.840> many<00:03:07.200> countries<00:03:07.840> in<00:03:08.040> many hold true in many countries in many hold true in many countries in many cultures<00:03:09.519> at<00:03:09.680> times<00:03:09.920> they<00:03:10.040> don't<00:03:10.239> even<00:03:10.440> hold cultures at times they don't even hold cultures at times they don't even hold true<00:03:10.920> at<00:03:11.080> America's<00:03:11.519> own true at America's own true at America's own borders<00:03:13.280> I'd<00:03:13.440> like<00:03:13.560> 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