What you don't know about marriage - Jenna McCarthy
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every year in the United States alone
every year in the United States alone
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two million 77,000 couples make a legal
two million 77,000 couples make a legal
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and spiritual decision to spend the rest
and spiritual decision to spend the rest
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of their lives together and not to have
of their lives together and not to have
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sex with anyone else
sex with anyone else
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ever he buys a ring she buys a dress
ever he buys a ring she buys a dress
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they go shopping for all sorts of things
they go shopping for all sorts of things
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she takes him to Arthur Murray for
she takes him to Arthur Murray for
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ballroom dancing lessons and the big day
ballroom dancing lessons and the big day
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comes and they'll stand before God and
comes and they'll stand before God and
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family and some guy her dad once did
family and some guy her dad once did
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business with and they'll vow that
business with and they'll vow that
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nothing not abject poverty not
nothing not abject poverty not
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life-threatening illness not complete
life-threatening illness not complete
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and utter misery will ever put the
and utter misery will ever put the
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tiniest damper on their eternal love and
tiniest damper on their eternal love and
devotion
devotion
devotion
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these optimistic young bastards promise
these optimistic young bastards promise
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to honor and cherish each other through
to honor and cherish each other through
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hot flashes and midlife crises and a
hot flashes and midlife crises and a
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cumulative 50 pound weight gain until
cumulative 50 pound weight gain until
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that far-off day when one of them is
that far-off day when one of them is
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finally able to rest in peace you know
finally able to rest in peace you know
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cuz they can't hear this snoring anymore
cuz they can't hear this snoring anymore
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and then they'll get stupid drunk and
and then they'll get stupid drunk and
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smash cake in each other's faces and do
smash cake in each other's faces and do
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the Macarena and we'll be there
the Macarena and we'll be there
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showering them with towels and toasters
showering them with towels and toasters
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and drinking their free booze and
and drinking their free booze and
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throwing birdseed at them every single
throwing birdseed at them every single
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time even though we know statistically
time even though we know statistically
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half of them will be divorced within a
half of them will be divorced within a
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of course the other half won't right
of course the other half won't right
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they'll keep forgetting anniversaries
they'll keep forgetting anniversaries
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and arguing about where to spend
and arguing about where to spend
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holidays and debating which way the
holidays and debating which way the
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toilet paper should come off of the roll
toilet paper should come off of the roll
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and some of them some of them will even
and some of them some of them will even
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still be enjoying each other's company
still be enjoying each other's company
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when neither of them can chew solid food
when neither of them can chew solid food
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anymore and researchers want to know why
anymore and researchers want to know why
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I mean look it doesn't take a
I mean look it doesn't take a
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double-blind placebo-controlled study to
double-blind placebo-controlled study to
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figure out what makes a mare do not work
figure out what makes a mare do not work
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right disrespect boredom too much time
right disrespect boredom too much time
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on Facebook having sex with other people
on Facebook having sex with other people
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but you can have the exact opposite of
but you can have the exact opposite of
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all of those things respect excitement a
all of those things respect excitement a
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broken internet connection mind-numbing
broken internet connection mind-numbing
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monogamy and that things still can go to
monogamy and that things still can go to
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hell in a handbasket
hell in a handbasket
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so what's going on when it doesn't what
so what's going on when it doesn't what
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do the folks who make it all the way to
do the folks who make it all the way to
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side-by-side burial plots have in common
side-by-side burial plots have in common
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what are they doing right what can we
what are they doing right what can we
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learn from them and if you're still
learn from them and if you're still
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happily sleeping solo why should you
happily sleeping solo why should you
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stop what you're doing and make it your
stop what you're doing and make it your
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life's work to find that one special
life's work to find that one special
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person that you can annoy for the rest
person that you can annoy for the rest
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of your life well researchers spend
of your life well researchers spend
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billions of your tax dollars trying to
billions of your tax dollars trying to
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figure that out
figure that out
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they stock blissful couples and they
they stock blissful couples and they
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study their every move and mannerism and
study their every move and mannerism and
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they try to pinpoint what it is that
they try to pinpoint what it is that
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sets them apart from their miserable
sets them apart from their miserable
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neighbors and friends and it turns out
neighbors and friends and it turns out
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the success stories share a few
the success stories share a few
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similarities actually beyond they don't
similarities actually beyond they don't
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have sex with other people for instance
have sex with other people for instance
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in the happiest marriages the wife is
in the happiest marriages the wife is
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thinner and better-looking than the
thinner and better-looking than the
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husband obvious this leads right it's
husband obvious this leads right it's
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obvious that this leads to
obvious that this leads to
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marital bliss because women we care a
marital bliss because women we care a
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great deal about being thin and
great deal about being thin and
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good-looking whereas men mostly care
good-looking whereas men mostly care
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about sex ideally with women who are
about sex ideally with women who are
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thinner and better-looking than they are
thinner and better-looking than they are
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the beauty of this research though is
the beauty of this research though is
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that no one is suggesting that women
that no one is suggesting that women
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have to be thin to be happy there than
have to be thin to be happy there than
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our partners so instead of all that
our partners so instead of all that
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laborious dieting and exercising we just
laborious dieting and exercising we just
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need to wait for them to get fat maybe
need to wait for them to get fat maybe
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make a few pies this is good information
make a few pies this is good information
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to have and it's not that complicated
to have and it's not that complicated
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research also suggests that the happiest
research also suggests that the happiest
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couples are the ones that focus on the
couples are the ones that focus on the
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positives right
positives right
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for example the happy wife instead of
for example the happy wife instead of
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pointing out her husband's growing gut
pointing out her husband's growing gut
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or suggesting he go for a run she might
or suggesting he go for a run she might
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say well honey thank you for going out
say well honey thank you for going out
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of your way to make me relatively
of your way to make me relatively
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thinner these are couples who can find
thinner these are couples who can find
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good in any situation yeah it was
good in any situation yeah it was
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devastating when we lost everything on
devastating when we lost everything on
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that fire it's kind of nice sleeping out
that fire it's kind of nice sleeping out
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here under the stars and it's a good
here under the stars and it's a good
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thing you've got all that body fat to
thing you've got all that body fat to
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keep us warm one of my favorite studies
keep us warm one of my favorite studies
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found that the more willing a husband is
found that the more willing a husband is
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to do housework the more attractive his
to do housework the more attractive his
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wife will find him because we needed a
wife will find him because we needed a
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study to tell us this but here's what's
study to tell us this but here's what's
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going on here
going on here
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the more attractive she finds him more
the more attractive she finds him more
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sex they have the more sex they have the
sex they have the more sex they have the
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nicer he is to her the nicer key is to
nicer he is to her the nicer key is to
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her the less she nags him about leaving
her the less she nags him about leaving
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wet towels on the bed and ultimately
wet towels on the bed and ultimately
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they live happily ever after
they live happily ever after
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in other words men you might want to
in other words men you might want to
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pick it up a notch in the domestic
pick it up a notch in the domestic
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department here's an interesting one one
department here's an interesting one one
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study found that people who smile in
study found that people who smile in
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childhood photographs are less likely to
childhood photographs are less likely to
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get a divorce this is an actual study
get a divorce this is an actual study
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and let me clarify the researchers were
and let me clarify the researchers were
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not looking at documented self reports
not looking at documented self reports
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of childhood happiness or even studying
of childhood happiness or even studying
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old journals the data were based
old journals the data were based
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entirely on whether people look happy in
entirely on whether people look happy in
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these early pictures
these early pictures
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now I don't know how old all of you are
now I don't know how old all of you are
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but when I was a kid your parents took
but when I was a kid your parents took
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pictures with a special kind of camera
pictures with a special kind of camera
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that held something called film and by
that held something called film and by
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God film was expensive yeah they didn't
God film was expensive yeah they didn't
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take 300 shots of you in that rapid-fire
take 300 shots of you in that rapid-fire
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digital video mode and then pick out
digital video mode and then pick out
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some nicest smiley ax store the
some nicest smiley ax store the
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Christmas card huh no they dressed you
Christmas card huh no they dressed you
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up they lined you up and you smiled for
up they lined you up and you smiled for
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the camera like they told you to
the camera like they told you to
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or you could kiss your birthday party
or you could kiss your birthday party
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goodbye but still I have a huge pile of
goodbye but still I have a huge pile of
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fake happy childhood pictures and I'm
fake happy childhood pictures and I'm
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glad they make me less likely than some
glad they make me less likely than some
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people to get it worse so what else can
people to get it worse so what else can
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you do to safeguard your marriage do not
you do to safeguard your marriage do not
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win an Oscar for Best Actress I'm
win an Oscar for Best Actress I'm
serious
serious
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Betty Davis Joan Crawford Halle Berry
Betty Davis Joan Crawford Halle Berry
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Hilary Swank Sandra Bullock Reese
Hilary Swank Sandra Bullock Reese
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Witherspoon all of them Singles soon
Witherspoon all of them Singles soon
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after taking home that statue they
after taking home that statue they
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actually call it the Oscar curse it is
actually call it the Oscar curse it is
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the marriage kiss of death and something
the marriage kiss of death and something
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that should be avoided and it's not just
that should be avoided and it's not just
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successfully starring in films that's
successfully starring in films that's
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dangerous it turns out merely watching a
dangerous it turns out merely watching a
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romantic comedy causes relationship
romantic comedy causes relationship
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satisfaction to plummet apparently the
satisfaction to plummet apparently the
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bitter realization that maybe it could
bitter realization that maybe it could
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happen to us but it obviously hasn't and
happen to us but it obviously hasn't and
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it probably never will makes our lives
it probably never will makes our lives
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seem unbearably grim in comparison and
seem unbearably grim in comparison and
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theoretically I suppose if we opted for
theoretically I suppose if we opted for
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a film where someone gets brutally
a film where someone gets brutally
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murdered or dies in a fiery car crash we
murdered or dies in a fiery car crash we
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are more likely to walk out of that
are more likely to walk out of that
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theater feeling like we've got it pretty
theater feeling like we've got it pretty
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good drinking alcohol
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it seems bad for your marriage yeah I
it seems bad for your marriage yeah I
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can't tell you any more about that one
can't tell you any more about that one
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cuz I stopped reading it at the headline
cuz I stopped reading it at the headline
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but here's a scary one divorce is
but here's a scary one divorce is
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contagious that's right when you have a
contagious that's right when you have a
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close couple friend to split up it
close couple friend to split up it
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increases your chances of getting a
increases your chances of getting a
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divorce by 75% now I have to say I don't
divorce by 75% now I have to say I don't
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get this one
get this one
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all my husband and I have watched quite
all my husband and I have watched quite
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a few friends divide their assets and
a few friends divide their assets and
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then struggle with being our age and
then struggle with being our age and
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single in an age of sexting and viagra
single in an age of sexting and viagra
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and harmony and I'm thinking they've
and harmony and I'm thinking they've
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done more for my marriage than a
done more for my marriage than a
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lifetime of therapy ever could so now
lifetime of therapy ever could so now
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you may be wondering why does anyone get
you may be wondering why does anyone get
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married ever well the US federal
married ever well the US federal
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government counts more than a thousand
government counts more than a thousand
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legal benefits to being someone's spouse
legal benefits to being someone's spouse
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a lists that includes visitation rights
a lists that includes visitation rights
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in jail but hopefully you'll never need
in jail but hopefully you'll never need
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that one
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but beyond the profound federal perks
but beyond the profound federal perks
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married people make more money we're
married people make more money we're
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healthier physically and emotionally we
healthier physically and emotionally we
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produce happier more stable and more
produce happier more stable and more
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successful kids we have more sex than
successful kids we have more sex than
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our supposedly swinging single friends
our supposedly swinging single friends
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believe it or not we even live longer
believe it or not we even live longer
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which is a pretty compelling argument
which is a pretty compelling argument
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for marrying someone you like a lot in
for marrying someone you like a lot in
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the first place now if you're not
the first place now if you're not
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currently experiencing the joy of the
currently experiencing the joy of the
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joint tax return I can't tell you how to
joint tax return I can't tell you how to
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find a chore loving person of the
find a chore loving person of the
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approximately ideal size and
approximately ideal size and
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attractiveness who prefers horror movies
attractiveness who prefers horror movies
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and doesn't have a lot of friends
and doesn't have a lot of friends
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hovering on the brink of divorce but I
hovering on the brink of divorce but I
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can only encourage you to try because
can only encourage you to try because
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the benefits as I've pointed out are
the benefits as I've pointed out are
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significant the bottom line is whether
significant the bottom line is whether
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you're in it or you're searching for it
you're in it or you're searching for it
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I believe marriage is an institution
I believe marriage is an institution
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worth pursuing and protecting so I hope
worth pursuing and protecting so I hope
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you'll use the information I've given
you'll use the information I've given
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you today to weigh your personal
you today to weigh your personal
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strengths against your own risk factors
strengths against your own risk factors
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for instance in my marriage I'd say I'm
for instance in my marriage I'd say I'm
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doing okay
doing okay
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on the one hand I have a husband who's
on the one hand I have a husband who's
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annoyingly lean and incredibly handsome
annoyingly lean and incredibly handsome
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so I'm obviously going to need to fatten
so I'm obviously going to need to fatten
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him up and like I said we have those
him up and like I said we have those
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divorced friends who may secretly or
divorced friends who may secretly or
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subconsciously be trying to break us up
subconsciously be trying to break us up
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so we have to keep an eye on that
so we have to keep an eye on that
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and we do like a cocktail or two on the
and we do like a cocktail or two on the
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other hand I have the fake happy picture
other hand I have the fake happy picture
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thing and also my husband does a lot
thing and also my husband does a lot
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around the house and would happily never
around the house and would happily never
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see another romantic comedy as long as
see another romantic comedy as long as
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he lives so I've got all those things
he lives so I've got all those things
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going for me but just in case I plan to
going for me but just in case I plan to
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work extra hard to not win an Oscar
work extra hard to not win an Oscar
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anytime soon
anytime soon
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and for the good of your relationships I
and for the good of your relationships I
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would encourage you to do the same I'll
would encourage you to do the same I'll
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