The power of introverts - Susan Cain
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when I was nine years old I went off to
when I was nine years old I went off to
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summer camp for the first time and my
summer camp for the first time and my
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mother packed me his suitcase full of
mother packed me his suitcase full of
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books which to me seemed like a
books which to me seemed like a
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perfectly natural thing to do because in
perfectly natural thing to do because in
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my family reading was the primary group
my family reading was the primary group
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activity and this might sound antisocial
activity and this might sound antisocial
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to you but for us it was really just a
to you but for us it was really just a
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different way of being social
different way of being social
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you had the animal warmth of your family
you had the animal warmth of your family
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sitting right next to you but you were
sitting right next to you but you were
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also free to go roaming around the
also free to go roaming around the
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Adventureland inside your own mind and I
Adventureland inside your own mind and I
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had this idea that camp was going to be
had this idea that camp was going to be
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just like this but better I had a vision
just like this but better I had a vision
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of 10 girls sitting in a cabin cozily
of 10 girls sitting in a cabin cozily
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reading books and their matching
reading books and their matching
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nightgowns camp was more like a keg
nightgowns camp was more like a keg
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party without any alcohol and on the
party without any alcohol and on the
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very first day our counselor gathered us
very first day our counselor gathered us
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all together and she taught us a cheer
all together and she taught us a cheer
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that she said we would be doing every
that she said we would be doing every
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day for the rest of the summer to
day for the rest of the summer to
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instill camp spirit and it went like
instill camp spirit and it went like
this
this
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our owd ie that's the way we spell rowdy
our owd ie that's the way we spell rowdy
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rowdy rowdy
rowdy rowdy
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let's get rowdy yeah so I couldn't
let's get rowdy yeah so I couldn't
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figure out for the life of me why we
figure out for the life of me why we
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were supposed to be so rowdy or why we
were supposed to be so rowdy or why we
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but I recited the cheer I recited the
but I recited the cheer I recited the
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cheer along with everybody else I did my
cheer along with everybody else I did my
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best and I just waited for the time that
best and I just waited for the time that
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I could go off and read my books but the
I could go off and read my books but the
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first time that I took my book out of my
first time that I took my book out of my
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suitcase the coolest girl in the bunk
suitcase the coolest girl in the bunk
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came up to me and she asked me why are
came up to me and she asked me why are
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you being so mellow mellow of course
you being so mellow mellow of course
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being the exact opposite of our owd ie
being the exact opposite of our owd ie
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and then the second time I tried it the
and then the second time I tried it the
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counselor came up to me he was a
counselor came up to me he was a
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concerned expression on her face and she
concerned expression on her face and she
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repeated the point about camp spirit and
repeated the point about camp spirit and
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said we should all really work very hard
said we should all really work very hard
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to be outgoing and so I put my books
to be outgoing and so I put my books
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away back in their suitcase and I put
away back in their suitcase and I put
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them under my bed and there they stayed
them under my bed and there they stayed
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for the rest of the summer and I felt
for the rest of the summer and I felt
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kind of guilty about this I felt as if
kind of guilty about this I felt as if
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the books needed me somehow and they
the books needed me somehow and they
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were calling out to me and I was
were calling out to me and I was
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forsaking them but I did forsake them
forsaking them but I did forsake them
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and I didn't open that suitcase again
and I didn't open that suitcase again
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until I was back home with my family at
until I was back home with my family at
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the end of the summer now I tell you
the end of the summer now I tell you
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this story about summer camp I could
this story about summer camp I could
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have told you fifty others just like it
have told you fifty others just like it
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all the times that I got the message
all the times that I got the message
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that somehow my quiet and introverted
that somehow my quiet and introverted
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style of being was not necessarily the
style of being was not necessarily the
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right way to go and that I should be
right way to go and that I should be
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trying to pass as more of an extrovert
trying to pass as more of an extrovert
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and I always sense deep down that this
and I always sense deep down that this
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was wrong and that introverts were
was wrong and that introverts were
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pretty excellent just as they were but
pretty excellent just as they were but
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for years I denied this intuition and so
for years I denied this intuition and so
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I became a Wall Street lawyer of all
I became a Wall Street lawyer of all
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things instead of the writer that I had
things instead of the writer that I had
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always longed to be partly because I
always longed to be partly because I
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needed to prove to myself that I could
needed to prove to myself that I could
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be bold and assertive too and I was
be bold and assertive too and I was
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always going off to crowded bars when I
always going off to crowded bars when I
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really would have preferred to just have
really would have preferred to just have
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a nice dinner with friends
a nice dinner with friends
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and I made these self negating choices
and I made these self negating choices
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so reflexively but I wasn't even aware
so reflexively but I wasn't even aware
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that I was making them now this is what
that I was making them now this is what
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many introverts to you and it's our loss
many introverts to you and it's our loss
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for sure but it is also our colleagues
for sure but it is also our colleagues
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loss and our community's loss and at the
loss and our community's loss and at the
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risk of sounding grandiose it is the
risk of sounding grandiose it is the
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world's loss because when it comes to
world's loss because when it comes to
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creativity and to leadership we need
creativity and to leadership we need
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introverts doing what they do best a
introverts doing what they do best a
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third to a half of the population are
third to a half of the population are
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introverts a third to a half so that's
introverts a third to a half so that's
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one out of every two or three people you
one out of every two or three people you
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know so even if you are an extrovert you
know so even if you are an extrovert you
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self you know I'm talking about your
self you know I'm talking about your
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co-workers and your spouses and your
co-workers and your spouses and your
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children and the person sitting right
children and the person sitting right
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next to you right now all of them
next to you right now all of them
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subject to this bias that is pretty deep
subject to this bias that is pretty deep
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and real in our society we all
and real in our society we all
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internalize it from a very early age
internalize it from a very early age
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without even having a language for what
without even having a language for what
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we're doing now to see the bias clearly
we're doing now to see the bias clearly
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you need to understand what introversion
you need to understand what introversion
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is and it's different from being shy
is and it's different from being shy
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shyness is about fear of social judgment
shyness is about fear of social judgment
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introversion is more about how do you
introversion is more about how do you
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respond to stimulation including social
respond to stimulation including social
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stimulation so extroverts really crave
stimulation so extroverts really crave
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large amounts of stimulation
large amounts of stimulation
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whereas introverts feel at their most
whereas introverts feel at their most
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alive and their most switched on and
alive and their most switched on and
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they're most capable when they're in
they're most capable when they're in
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quieter more low-key environments not
quieter more low-key environments not
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all the time you know these things are
all the time you know these things are
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an absolute but a lot of the time so the
an absolute but a lot of the time so the
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key then to maximizing our talents is
key then to maximizing our talents is
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for us all to put ourselves in the zone
for us all to put ourselves in the zone
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of stimulation that is right for us but
of stimulation that is right for us but
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now here's where the bias comes in our
now here's where the bias comes in our
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most important institutions our schools
most important institutions our schools
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and our workplaces they are designed
and our workplaces they are designed
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mostly for extroverts and for extroverts
mostly for extroverts and for extroverts
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need for lots of stimulation and also we
need for lots of stimulation and also we
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are living through this belief system we
are living through this belief system we
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have a belief system right now that I
have a belief system right now that I
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call the new groupthink which holds that
call the new groupthink which holds that
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all creativity and all productivity
all creativity and all productivity
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comes from a very oddly gregarious place
comes from a very oddly gregarious place
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so if you picture the typical classroom
so if you picture the typical classroom
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nowadays when I was going to school we
nowadays when I was going to school we
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sat in rows you know we thought in rows
sat in rows you know we thought in rows
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of desks like this and we did most of
of desks like this and we did most of
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our work pretty autonomously but
our work pretty autonomously but
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nowadays your typical classroom has pods
nowadays your typical classroom has pods
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of desks - four or five or six or seven
of desks - four or five or six or seven
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kids all facing each other and kids are
kids all facing each other and kids are
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working in countless group assignments
working in countless group assignments
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even in subjects like math and creative
even in subjects like math and creative
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writing which you would think would
writing which you would think would
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depend on solo flights of thought kids
depend on solo flights of thought kids
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are now expected to act as committee
are now expected to act as committee
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members and for the kids who prefer to
members and for the kids who prefer to
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go off by themselves or just to work
go off by themselves or just to work
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alone those kids are seen as outliers
alone those kids are seen as outliers
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often or worse as problem cases and the
often or worse as problem cases and the
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vast majority of teachers reports
vast majority of teachers reports
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believing that the ideal student is an
believing that the ideal student is an
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extrovert as opposed to an introvert
extrovert as opposed to an introvert
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even though introverts actually get
even though introverts actually get
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better grades and are more knowledgeable
better grades and are more knowledgeable
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according to according to research
according to according to research
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okay same thing is true in our
okay same thing is true in our
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workplaces we now most of us work in
workplaces we now most of us work in
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open-plan offices without walls where we
open-plan offices without walls where we
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are subject to the constant noise and
are subject to the constant noise and
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gaze of our co-workers and when it comes
gaze of our co-workers and when it comes
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to leadership introverts are routinely
to leadership introverts are routinely
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passed over for leadership positions
passed over for leadership positions
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even though introverts tend to be very
even though introverts tend to be very
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careful much less likely to take
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outsides risks which is something we
outsides risks which is something we
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might all favor nowadays and an
might all favor nowadays and an
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interesting research by Adam grant at
interesting research by Adam grant at
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the Wharton School has found that
the Wharton School has found that
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introverted leaders often deliver better
introverted leaders often deliver better
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outcomes than extroverts to you because
outcomes than extroverts to you because
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when they are managing proactive
when they are managing proactive
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employees they're much more likely to
employees they're much more likely to
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let those employees run with their ideas
let those employees run with their ideas
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whereas an extrovert can quite
whereas an extrovert can quite
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unwittingly get so excited about about
unwittingly get so excited about about
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things that they're putting their own
things that they're putting their own
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stamp on things and other people's ideas
stamp on things and other people's ideas
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might not as easily then bubble up to
might not as easily then bubble up to
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the surface now in fact some of our
the surface now in fact some of our
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transformative leaders in history have
transformative leaders in history have
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been introverts I'll give you some
been introverts I'll give you some
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examples Eleanor Roosevelt Rosa Parks
examples Eleanor Roosevelt Rosa Parks
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Gandhi all these people described
Gandhi all these people described
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themselves as quiet and soft-spoken and
themselves as quiet and soft-spoken and
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even shy and they all took the spotlight
even shy and they all took the spotlight
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even though every bone in their bodies
even though every bone in their bodies
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was telling them not to and this turns
was telling them not to and this turns
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out to have a special power all its own
out to have a special power all its own
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because people could feel that these
because people could feel that these
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leaders were at the helm not because
leaders were at the helm not because
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they enjoyed directing others and not
they enjoyed directing others and not
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out of the pleasure of being looked at
out of the pleasure of being looked at
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they were there because they had no
they were there because they had no
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choice because they were driven to do
choice because they were driven to do
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what they thought was right now I think
what they thought was right now I think
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at this point it's important for me to
at this point it's important for me to
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say that I actually love extroverts I
say that I actually love extroverts I
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always like to say some of my best
always like to say some of my best
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friends are extroverts including my
friends are extroverts including my
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beloved husband and we all fall at
beloved husband and we all fall at
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different points of course along the
different points of course along the
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introvert extrovert spectrum you know
introvert extrovert spectrum you know
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even Carl Jung the psychologist who
even Carl Jung the psychologist who
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first popularized these terms said that
first popularized these terms said that
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there's no such thing as a pure
there's no such thing as a pure
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introvert or a pure extrovert
introvert or a pure extrovert
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he said that such a man would be an
he said that such a man would be an
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Aluna tick asylum if he existed at all
Aluna tick asylum if he existed at all
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and some people fall smack in the middle
and some people fall smack in the middle
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of the introvert extrovert spectrum and
of the introvert extrovert spectrum and
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we call these people ambiverts and I
we call these people ambiverts and I
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often think that they have the best of
often think that they have the best of
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all worlds but many of us do recognize
all worlds but many of us do recognize
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ourselves as one type or the other and
ourselves as one type or the other and
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what I'm saying is that culturally we
what I'm saying is that culturally we
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need a much better balance we mean we
need a much better balance we mean we
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need more of a yin and yang between
need more of a yin and yang between
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these two types
these two types
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now this is especially important when it
now this is especially important when it
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comes to creativity into productivity
comes to creativity into productivity
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because when psychologists look at the
because when psychologists look at the
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lives have the most creative people what
lives have the most creative people what
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they find are people who are very good
they find are people who are very good
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at exchanging ideas and advancing ideas
at exchanging ideas and advancing ideas
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but who also have a serious streak of
but who also have a serious streak of
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introversion in them and this is because
introversion in them and this is because
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solitude is a crucial ingredient often
solitude is a crucial ingredient often
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to creativity so Darwin knew he took
to creativity so Darwin knew he took
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long walks alone in the woods and
long walks alone in the woods and
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emphatically turned down dinner party
emphatically turned down dinner party
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invitations see you dork I sell better
invitations see you dork I sell better
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known as dr. Seuss he dreamed up many of
known as dr. Seuss he dreamed up many of
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his amazing creations in a lonely
his amazing creations in a lonely
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belltower office that he had in the back
belltower office that he had in the back
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of his house in La Jolla California and
of his house in La Jolla California and
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he was actually afraid to meet the young
he was actually afraid to meet the young
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children who read his books for fear
children who read his books for fear
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that they were expecting him to be this
that they were expecting him to be this
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kind of jolly Santa Claus like figure
kind of jolly Santa Claus like figure
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and would be disappointed with his more
and would be disappointed with his more
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reserved persona Steve Wozniak invented
reserved persona Steve Wozniak invented
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the first Apple computer sitting alone
the first Apple computer sitting alone
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in his cubicle and hewlett-packard where
in his cubicle and hewlett-packard where
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he was working at the time and he says
he was working at the time and he says
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that he never would have become such an
that he never would have become such an
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expert in the first place had he not
expert in the first place had he not
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been too introverted to leave the house
been too introverted to leave the house
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when he was growing up now
when he was growing up now
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of course this does not mean that we
of course this does not mean that we
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should all stop collaborating and Kayson
should all stop collaborating and Kayson
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point is Steve Wozniak famously coming
point is Steve Wozniak famously coming
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together with Steve Jobs to start Apple
together with Steve Jobs to start Apple
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Computer but it does mean that solitude
Computer but it does mean that solitude
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matters and that for some people it is
matters and that for some people it is
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the air that they breathe and in fact we
the air that they breathe and in fact we
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have known for centuries about the
have known for centuries about the
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transcendent power of solitude it's only
transcendent power of solitude it's only
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recently that we've strangely begun to
recently that we've strangely begun to
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forget it if you look at most of the
forget it if you look at most of the
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world's major religions you will find
world's major religions you will find
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seekers Moses Jesus Buddha Muhammad
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seekers who are going off by themselves
seekers who are going off by themselves
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alone to the wilderness where they then
alone to the wilderness where they then
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have profound epiphanies and revelations
have profound epiphanies and revelations
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that they then bring back to the rest of
that they then bring back to the rest of
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the community
the community
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so no wilderness no revelations this is
so no wilderness no revelations this is
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no surprise though if you look at the
no surprise though if you look at the
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insights of contemporary psychology you
insights of contemporary psychology you
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know it turns out that we can't even be
know it turns out that we can't even be
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in a group of people without
in a group of people without
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instinctively mirroring and mimicking
instinctively mirroring and mimicking
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their opinions even about seemingly
their opinions even about seemingly
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personal and visceral things like who
personal and visceral things like who
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you're attracted to
you're attracted to
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you will start aping the beliefs of the
you will start aping the beliefs of the
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people around you without even realizing
people around you without even realizing
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that's what you're doing and groups
that's what you're doing and groups
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famously follow the opinions of the most
famously follow the opinions of the most
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dominant or charismatic person in the
dominant or charismatic person in the
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room even though there's zero
room even though there's zero
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correlation between being the best
correlation between being the best
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talker and having the best ideas I mean
talker and having the best ideas I mean
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zero so you might be following the
zero so you might be following the
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person with the best ideas but you might
person with the best ideas but you might
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not and do you really want to leave it
not and do you really want to leave it
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up to chance much better for everybody
up to chance much better for everybody
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to go off by themselves generate their
to go off by themselves generate their
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own ideas freed from the distortions of
own ideas freed from the distortions of
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group dynamics and then come together as
group dynamics and then come together as
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a team to talk some through in a will
a team to talk some through in a will
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manage environment and take it from
manage environment and take it from
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there now if all this is true then why
there now if all this is true then why
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are we getting it so wrong why are we
are we getting it so wrong why are we
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setting up our schools this way in our
setting up our schools this way in our
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workplaces and why are we making these
workplaces and why are we making these
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introverts feel so guilty about wanting
introverts feel so guilty about wanting
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to just go off by themselves some of the
to just go off by themselves some of the
time
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one answer lies deep in our cultural
one answer lies deep in our cultural
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history Western societies and in
history Western societies and in
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particular the US have always favored
particular the US have always favored
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the man of action over the man of
the man of action over the man of
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contemplation and man of contemplation
contemplation and man of contemplation
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but in the you know in America's early
but in the you know in America's early
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days we lived in what historians call a
days we lived in what historians call a
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culture of character where we still at
culture of character where we still at
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that point valued people for their inner
that point valued people for their inner
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selves and their moral rectitude and if
selves and their moral rectitude and if
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you look at the self-help books from
you look at the self-help books from
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this era as they all had titles with
this era as they all had titles with
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things like character the grandest thing
things like character the grandest thing
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in the world and they featured role
in the world and they featured role
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models like Abraham Lincoln who was
models like Abraham Lincoln who was
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praised for being modest and unassuming
praised for being modest and unassuming
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Ralph Waldo Emerson called him a man who
Ralph Waldo Emerson called him a man who
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does not offend by superiority but then
does not offend by superiority but then
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we hit the twentieth century and we
we hit the twentieth century and we
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entered a new culture that historians
entered a new culture that historians
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call the culture of personality you know
call the culture of personality you know
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what happened is we had evolved from an
what happened is we had evolved from an
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agricultural economy to a world of big
agricultural economy to a world of big
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business and so suddenly people are
business and so suddenly people are
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moving from small towns to the cities
moving from small towns to the cities
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and instead of working alongside people
and instead of working alongside people
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they've known all their lives now they
they've known all their lives now they
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are having to prove themselves at a
are having to prove themselves at a
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crowd of strangers
crowd of strangers
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so quite understandably quality is like
so quite understandably quality is like
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magnetism and charisma suddenly come to
magnetism and charisma suddenly come to
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seem really important I'm sure enough
seem really important I'm sure enough
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the self-help books change to meet these
the self-help books change to meet these
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new needs and they start to have names
new needs and they start to have names
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like how to win friends and influence
like how to win friends and influence
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people and they feature as their role
people and they feature as their role
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models really great sales
models really great sales
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so that's the world we're living in
so that's the world we're living in
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today that's our cultural inheritance
today that's our cultural inheritance
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now none of this is to say that social
now none of this is to say that social
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skills are unimportant and I'm also not
skills are unimportant and I'm also not
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calling for the abolishing of teamwork
calling for the abolishing of teamwork
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at all you know the same religions who
at all you know the same religions who
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send their sages off to lonely
send their sages off to lonely
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mountaintops also teach us love and
mountaintops also teach us love and
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trust and the problems that we are
trust and the problems that we are
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facing today and fields like science and
facing today and fields like science and
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in economics are so vast and so complex
in economics are so vast and so complex
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that we are going to need armies of
that we are going to need armies of
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people coming together to solve them
people coming together to solve them
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working together but I am saying that
working together but I am saying that
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the more freedom that we give introverts
the more freedom that we give introverts
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to be themselves the more likely that
to be themselves the more likely that
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they are to come up with their own
they are to come up with their own
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unique solutions to these problems so
unique solutions to these problems so
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now I'd like to share with you what's in
now I'd like to share with you what's in
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my suitcase today guess what books have
my suitcase today guess what books have
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a suitcase full of books
a suitcase full of books
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here's Margaret Atwood cat's-eye here's
here's Margaret Atwood cat's-eye here's
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a novel by Milan Kundera
a novel by Milan Kundera
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and here's the guide of the perplexed by
and here's the guide of the perplexed by
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Maimonides but these are not exactly my
Maimonides but these are not exactly my
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books I brought these books with me
books I brought these books with me
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because they were written by my
because they were written by my
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grandfather's favorite authors my
grandfather's favorite authors my
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grandfather was a rabbi and he was a
grandfather was a rabbi and he was a
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widower who lived alone in a small
widower who lived alone in a small
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apartment in Brooklyn that was my
apartment in Brooklyn that was my
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favorite place in the world when I was
favorite place in the world when I was
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growing up partly because it was filled
growing up partly because it was filled
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with his very gentle very courtly
with his very gentle very courtly
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presence and partly because it was
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filled with books I mean literally every
filled with books I mean literally every
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table every chair in this apartment had
table every chair in this apartment had
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yielded its original function to now
yielded its original function to now
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serve as a surface for swaying stacks of
serve as a surface for swaying stacks of
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books just like the rest of my family my
books just like the rest of my family my
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grandfather's favorite thing to do in
grandfather's favorite thing to do in
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the world was to read but he also loved
the world was to read but he also loved
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his congregation and you could feel this
his congregation and you could feel this
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love in the sermons that he gave every
love in the sermons that he gave every
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week for the 62 years that he was a
week for the 62 years that he was a
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rabbi he would take the fruits of each
rabbi he would take the fruits of each
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week's reading and he would weave these
week's reading and he would weave these
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intricate tapestries of ancient and
intricate tapestries of ancient and
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humanist thought and people would come
humanist thought and people would come
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from all over to hear him speak but
from all over to hear him speak but
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here's the thing about my grandfather
here's the thing about my grandfather
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underneath his ceremonial role he was
underneath his ceremonial role he was
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really modest and really
really modest and really
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introverted so much so that when he
introverted so much so that when he
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delivered these sermons he had trouble
delivered these sermons he had trouble
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making eye contact with a very same
making eye contact with a very same
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congregation that he had been speaking
congregation that he had been speaking
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to you for 62 years and even away from
to you for 62 years and even away from
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the podium when you called him to say
the podium when you called him to say
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hello he would often end the
hello he would often end the
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conversation prematurely for fear that
conversation prematurely for fear that
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he was taking up too much of your time
he was taking up too much of your time
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but when he died at the age of 94 the
but when he died at the age of 94 the
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police had to close down the streets of
police had to close down the streets of
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his neighborhood to accommodate the
his neighborhood to accommodate the
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crowd of people who came out to mourn
crowd of people who came out to mourn
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him and so these days I try to learn
him and so these days I try to learn
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from my grandfather's example in my own
from my grandfather's example in my own
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way so I just published a book about
way so I just published a book about
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introversion and it took me about seven
introversion and it took me about seven
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years to write and for me that seven
years to write and for me that seven
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years was like total bliss because you
years was like total bliss because you
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know I was reading I was writing I was
know I was reading I was writing I was
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thinking I was researching it was my
thinking I was researching it was my
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version of my grandfather's hours a day
version of my grandfather's hours a day
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alone in his library but now all of a
alone in his library but now all of a
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sudden my job is very different and my
sudden my job is very different and my
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job is to be out here talking about it
job is to be out here talking about it
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and that's a lot harder for me because
and that's a lot harder for me because
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as honored as I am to be here with all
as honored as I am to be here with all
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of you right now this is not my natural
of you right now this is not my natural
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milieu so I prepared for moments like
milieu so I prepared for moments like
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these as best I could I spent the last
these as best I could I spent the last
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year practicing public speaking every
year practicing public speaking every
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chance I could get and I called this my
chance I could get and I called this my
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year of speaking dangerously and that
year of speaking dangerously and that
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actually helped a lot but I'll tell you
actually helped a lot but I'll tell you
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what helps even more is my sense my
what helps even more is my sense my
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belief my hope that when it comes to our
belief my hope that when it comes to our
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attitudes to introversion and to quiet
attitudes to introversion and to quiet
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and to solitude we truly are poised on
and to solitude we truly are poised on
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the brink of dramatic change I mean we
the brink of dramatic change I mean we
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are and so I am going to leave you now
are and so I am going to leave you now
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with three calls for action for those
with three calls for action for those
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who share this vision number one stop
who share this vision number one stop
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the madness for constant group work just
the madness for constant group work just
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thank you and I want to be clear about
thank you and I want to be clear about
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what I'm saying because I believe our
what I'm saying because I believe our
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offices should be encouraging casual
offices should be encouraging casual
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chatty cafe style types of interactions
chatty cafe style types of interactions
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you know the kind where people come
you know the kind where people come
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together and serendipitously have an
together and serendipitously have an
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exchange of ideas that is great that's
exchange of ideas that is great that's
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great for introverts and it's great for
great for introverts and it's great for
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extroverts but we need much more privacy
extroverts but we need much more privacy
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and much more freedom much more autonomy
and much more freedom much more autonomy
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at work school same thing we need to be
at work school same thing we need to be
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teaching kids to work together for sure
teaching kids to work together for sure
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but we also need to be teaching them how
but we also need to be teaching them how
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to work on their own this is especially
to work on their own this is especially
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important for extroverted children too
important for extroverted children too
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they need to work on their own because
they need to work on their own because
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that is where deep thought comes from in
that is where deep thought comes from in
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part okay number two go to the
part okay number two go to the
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wilderness be like Buddha have your own
wilderness be like Buddha have your own
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revelations I'm not saying that we all
revelations I'm not saying that we all
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have to now go off and build our own
have to now go off and build our own
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cabins in the woods and never talk to
cabins in the woods and never talk to
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each other again but I am saying that we
each other again but I am saying that we
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could all stand to unplug and get inside
could all stand to unplug and get inside
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our own heads a little more often number
our own heads a little more often number
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three take a good look at what's inside
three take a good look at what's inside
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your own suitcase and why you put it
your own suitcase and why you put it
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there so extroverts maybe your suitcases
there so extroverts maybe your suitcases
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are also full of books or maybe they're
are also full of books or maybe they're
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full of champagne glasses or skydiving
full of champagne glasses or skydiving
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equipment whatever it is I hope you take
equipment whatever it is I hope you take
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these things out every chance you get at
these things out every chance you get at
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grace us with your energy and your joy
grace us with your energy and your joy
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but introverts you being you you
but introverts you being you you
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probably have the impulse to guard very
probably have the impulse to guard very
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carefully what's inside your own
carefully what's inside your own
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suitcase and that's okay but
suitcase and that's okay but
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occasionally just occasionally I hope
occasionally just occasionally I hope
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you will open up your suitcases for
you will open up your suitcases for
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other people to see because the world
other people to see because the world
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needs you and it needs the things you
needs you and it needs the things you
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carry so I wish you the best of all
carry so I wish you the best of all
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possible journeys and the courage to
possible journeys and the courage to
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you
Susan Cain, TEDEducation, TED-Ed, TED, Ed, introvert, extrovert, sociology, Myers, Briggs, psychology
